Long before I could trace it to a verse of scriptures, I grew up hearing a proverb that some kind of words can fetch you gift while some others can draw out the sword against you. Later on as I progressed in the study of the Bible, I came across where God told the children of Israel that He would do to them as they had spoken. Before then they had recklessly said they preferred to die in the wilderness. Proverbs 18:21 says, “Death and life are in the power of the tongue, And those who love it will eat its fruit.” Even the words of Jesus will fit into the same frame – “For by your words you will be justified, and by your words you will be condemned.” Matthew 12:37 NKJV. All these are a pointer to the fact that words are weighty, and they have consequences.
Whenever you speak, you are either destroying or building; making enemies or friends. Those who have their way with words can almost have their way in anything and everyone else.
After the death of Solomon, the people came to make a deal with Rehoboam who succeeded him. They were ready to be his loyal subjects, only they wanted him to shed off some of the heavy burdens put on them by Solomon. Instead of acceding to their request, he answered them roughly and promised them a more burdensome regime than they had known under his predecessor. He lost the kingdom, except the tribe of Judah. People skill entails knowing how to speak. This is a skill-set that all leaders must possess. Without it, one can ruin everything one is trying to build. It is not in vain that the Bible says death and life are in the power of the tongue. Whenever you speak, you are either destroying or building; making enemies or friends. Those who have their way with words can almost have their way in anything and everyone else.