In general parlance, we say that the first impression matters. That is because many people will not have the opportunity to get a second impression of a person or situation before drawing conclusions. Yet, first impression could be misleading. Samuel was a prophet of God of no mean repute. However, he became a victim of first impression. The Lord asked him to go into Bethlehem Judah, specifically to the house of Jesse, to anoint a king in place of Saul. He was completely taken by Jesse’s first son. “So it was, when they came, that he looked at Eliab and said, “Surely the Lord’s anointed is before Him!” I Samuel 16:6 NKJV. Eliab was the first son and first to be paraded. Samuel thought he had hit the bull’s eye as his language revealed – “surely the Lord’s anointed is before Him”. God had to restrain the prophet not to look on the physical attributes.
No human assessment can be hundred percent accurate, because we do not have access to the inner workings of the people that we see. So don’t be in a hurry to slam the door on people because the first impression you got was negative.
How many times have you also assessed people based on externalities? Or, how many times have you been judged because of what people can see on the outside? We make this mistake often; and it is about time we went beyond the veil of externalities, considering things from outward appearance alone. God does not judge from outside impression; He looks on the inside, including the motive behind what is seen. No human assessment can be hundred percent accurate, because we do not have access to the inner workings of the people that we see. So don’t be in a hurry to slam the door on people because the first impression you got was negative.